Dildo Sizes: from Petite to Plus Size

January 19, 2023January 19, 2023 by Egle Goleckyte

How you enjoy the use of dildos and adult products depends on your body makeup. However, it could also depend on dildo sizes. Vagina sizes and sex experiences of people are not the same for everyone. The sensitivity of various parts also varies from one person to another. Contrary to popular opinion, a bigger dildo does not always mean better pleasure or sensation. In some cases, it could result in the opposite (skip straight to the dildo sizes).

The first step to take, if you want the best experience from the use of a sex toy is to figure out the dildo size that you can accommodate without pain or discomfort.

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According to experts, the average human penis is about 5.5 inches (13.87 cm) – 6 inches (15.2 cm) long and the most popular dildo size is 12.7 cm (5.08 inches) girth circumference and 16.6 cm (6.5 inches long). While this site may not be a perfect fit for every woman, it offers a reasonable range to play with. You can size up and down until you find the correct size that works best for you.

Beginners can start with the petite sizes and see how it works for them and you can size up as you gain more experience. Starting out with the wrong size can ruin the experience. There are several beginner dildos you can experiment with. One interesting thing about petite dildos is their ease of use. unlike the extra large sizes, you have immense control over how you work around and the parts you stimulate. The size charts below highlight some of the popular types and sizes of dildos.

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Double Dildo Sizes

Dimension	Extra Small	Small	Medium	Large	Extra Large
head 1 diameter (in/cm)	2.0 cm – 2.5 cm 0.8 in – 1.0 in	3.0 cm – 3.5 cm 1.2 in – 1.4 in	3.6 cm – 4.1 cm 1.4 in – 1.6 in	4 cm – 4.5 cm 1.6 in – 1.8 in	5.0 cm – 5.5 cm 2.0 in – 2.2 in
Head 2 diameter	2.3 cm – 2.8 cm 0.9 in – 1.1 in	2.6 cm – 3.1 cm 1.0 in – 1.2 in	2.8 cm – 3.3 cm 1.1 in – 1.3 in	3.6 cm – 4.1 cm 1.4 in – 1.6 in	4.5 cm – 5 cm 1.8 in – 2.0 in
Girth 1 diameter	2.5 cm – 3 cm 1.0 in – 1.2 in	2.7 – 3.2 cm 1.1 in – 1.3 in	3.2 cm – 3.7 cm 1.3 in – 1.5 in	3.8 cm – 4.3 cm 1.5 in – 1.7 in	4..1 cm – 4.6 cm 1.6 in – 1.8 in
Girth 2 diameter	2.0 cm – 2.5 cm 0.8 in – 1.0 in	2.4 cm – 2.9 cm 0.9 in – 1.1 in	2.5 cm – 3.0 cm 1.0 in – 1.2 in	3.4cm – 3.9 cm 1.3 in – 1.5 in	4.0 cm – 4.5 cm 1.6 in – 1.8 in
Insertable length	23.5 cm – 24 cm 9.3 in – 9.4 in	25.5 cm – 26.0 cm 10.0 in – 10.2 in	31.5 cm – 32.0 cm 12.4 in – 12.6 in	37.5cm – 38 cm 14.8 in – 15.0 in	38.5cm – 39 cm 15.2 in – 15.4 in

Textured Dildo Sizes

Dimension	Extra Small	Small	Medium	Large	Extra Large
head diameter	–	2.5 cm – 3.0 cm 1.0 in – 1.2 in	3.5 cm – 4.0 cm 1.4 in – 1.6 in	4.0 cm – 4.5 cm 1.6 in – 1.8 in	5.0 cm – 5.5 cm 2.0 in – 2.2 in
Girth diameter	–	2.8 cm – 3.3 cm 1.1 in – 1.3 in	3.3 cm – 3.8 cm 1.3 in – 1.5 in	3.7 cm – 4.2 cm 1.5 in – 1.7 in	4.5 cm – 5.0 cm 1.6 in – 1.8 in
Insertable length	–	15 cm – 15.5 cm 5.9 in – 6.1 in	17 cm –17.5 cm 6.7 in – 6.9 in	19 cm – 19.5 cm 7.5 in – 7.7 in	20.5 cm – 21 m 8.1 in – 8.3 in

Anal Dildo Sizes

Dimension	Extra Small	Small	Medium	Large	Extra Large
Head diameter	–	2.2 cm – 2.7 cm 0.9 in – 1.1 in	2.8 cm – 3.3 cm 1.1 in – 1.3 in	3.4 cm – 3.9 cm 1.3 in – 1.5 in	3.9 cm – 4.4 cm 1.5 in – 1.7 in
Girth diameter	–	4.6 cm – 5.1 cm 1.8 in – 2.0 in	5.5 cm – 6 cm 2.2 in – 2.4 in	6.5 cm – 7 cm 2.6 in – 2.8 in	7.2 cm – 7.7 cm 2.8 in – 3.0 in
Insertable length	–	15.0 cm – 15.5 cm 5.9 in – 6.1 in	18.0 cm – 18.5 cm 7.1 in – 7.3 in	21.0 cm – 21.5 cm 8.3 in – 8.5 in	24.0 cm – 24.5 cm 9.5 in – 9.7 in

Anal Curved Dildo Sizes

Dimension	Extra Small	Small	Medium	Large	Extra Large
Head diameter	–	2.0 cm – 2.5 cm 0.8 in – 1.0 in	2.5 cm – 3 cm 1.0 in – 1.2 in	3.0 cm – 3.5 cm 1.2 in – 1.4 in	3.5 cm – 4 cm 1.4 in – 1.6 in
Girth diameter	–	4.2 cm – 4.7 cm 1.7 in – 1.9 in	5.0 cm – 5.5 cm 2.0 in – 2.2 in	5.9 cm – 6.4 cm 2.3 in – 2.6 in	6.6 cm – 7.1 cm 2.6 in – 2.8 in
Insertable length	–	15.0 cm – 15.5 cm 5.9 in – 6.1 in	18.0 cm – 18.5 cm 7.1in – 7.3 in	21.0 cm – 21.5 cm 8.3 in – 8.5 in	24.0 cm – 24.5 cm 9.5 in – 9.7 in

Lifelike Dildo Sizes

Dimension	Extra Small	Small	Medium	Large	Extra Large
head diameter	–	4.1 cm – 4.6 cm 1.6 in – 1.8 in	5.1 cm – 5.6 cm 2.0 in – 2.2 in	6.1 cm – 6.6 cm 2.4 in – 2.6 in	–
Girth diameter	–	4.6 cm – 5.1 cm 1.8 in – 2.0 in	5.8 cm – 6.3 cm 2.3 in – 2.5 in	6.0 cm – 6.5 cm 2.4 in – 2.6 in	–
Insertable length	–	16.0 cm – 16.5 cm 6.3 in – 6.5 in	18.5 cm – 19.8 cm 7.3 in – 7.8 in	21.6 cm – 22.1 cm 8.5 in – 8.7 in	–

Standard Dildo Sizes

Dimension	Extra Small	Small	Medium	Large	Extra Large
head diameter	–	2.6 cm – 3.1 1.0 in – 1.2 in	3.6 cm – 4.1 cm 1.4 in – 1.6 in	4.0 cm – 4.5 cm 1.6 in – 1.8 in	–
Girth diameter	–	3.0 cm – 3.5 cm 1.2 in – 1.4 in	4.0 cm – 4.5 cm 1.6 in – 1.8 in	4.5 cm – 5.0 cm 1.8 in – 2.0 in	–
Insertable length	–	11.9 cm – 12.4 cm 4.7 in – 4.9 in	14.5 cm – 15 cm 5.7 in – 5.9 in	17 cm – 17.5 cm 6.7 in – 6.9 in	–

Curved Tip Dildo Sizes

Dimension	Extra Small	Small	Medium	Large	Extra Large
head diameter	2.6 cm – 3.1 cm 1.0 in – 1.2 in	3.0 cm – 3.5 cm 1.2 in – 1.4 in	3.6 cm – 4.1 cm 1.4 in – 1.6 in	4 cm – 4.5 1.6 in – 1.8 in	5.0 cm – 5.5 cm 2.0 in – 2.2 in
Girth diameter	3.2 cm – 3.7 cm 1.3 in – 1.5 in	3.5 cm– 4.0 cm 1.4 in – 1.6 in	4.0 cm – 4.5cm 1.6 in – 1.8 in	5.0 – 5.5 2.0 in – 2.2 in	6.0 in – 6.5 in 2.4 in – 2.6 in
Insertable length	14 cm – 14.5 cm 5.5 in – 5.7 in	17.8 cm – 18.3 cm 7 cm – 7.2 cm	21.6 cm – 22.1 cm 8.5 in – 8.7 in	26.4 cm – 26.9 cm 10.4 in – 10.9 in	32.5 cm – 33.0 cm 12.8 in – 13.3 in

Fantasy Dildo Sizes

Dimension	Extra Small	Small	Medium	Large	Extra Large
head diameter	–	4.5 cm – 5 cm 11.4 in – 12.7 in	5.5cm – 6 cm 14.0 in – 15.2 in	6.5cm – 7 cm 16.5 in – 17.8 in	–
Circumference of shaft	–	5.5 cm – 6 cm 14.0 in – 15.2 cm	6.5 cm – 7.0 cm 16.5 cm – 17.8 cm	7.5 cm – 8.0 cm 19.1 cm – 20.3 cm	–
Insertable length	–	24cm – 24.5 cm 61.0 in – 62.2 in	28cm – 28.5 cm 71.1 in – 72.4 in	32 cm – 32.5 cm 81.3 in – 82.6 in	–

Petite Size Dildo

Dimension	XS	S	Medium	Large	Extra Large
head diameter	4.2 cm – 4.7 cm 1.7 in – 1.8 in	4.5 cm – 5.0 cm 1.8 in – 2.0 in	5.1 cm – 5.6 cm 2.0 in – 2.2 in	6.4 cm– 6.9 cm 2.5 in – 2.7 in	–
Girth diameter	5.3 cm – 5.8 cm 2.1 in – 2.3 in	5.8 cm – 6.3 cm 2.3 in – 2.5 in	6.4 cm – 6.9 cm 2.5 in – 2.7 in	8.7 cm – 9.2 cm 3.4 in – 3.6 in	–
Insertable length	9.4 cm – 10.7 cm 3.7 cm – 4.2 cm	10.2 cm – 11.4 cm 4.0 cm – 4.5 cm	12.7 cm – 14.0 cm 5.0 cm – 5.5 cm	15.2 cm – 16.5 cm 6.0 cm – 6.5 cm	–

Plus Size Dildo Sizes

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Dimension	L	XL	1X	2X	3X
Circumference of head	3.2 cm – 3.7 cm 1.3 in – 1.5 in	3.7 cm – 4.2 cm 1.5 in – 1.7 in	4.0 cm – 4.5 cm 1.6 in – 1.8 in	5.0 cm – 5.5 cm 2.0 in – 2.2 in	6.0 cm – 6.5 cm 2.4 in – 2.6 in
Circumference of shaft	3.9 cm – 4.4 cm 1.5 in – 1.7 in	4.4 cm – 4.9 cm 1.7 in – 1.9 in	5.1 cm – 5.6 cm 2.0 in – 2.2 in	5.8 cm – 6.3 cm 2.3 in – 2.5 in	6.5 cm – 7.0 cm 2.6 in – 2.8 in
Insertable length	18 cm – 19.5 cm 7.1 in – 7.7 in	21 cm – 22.5 cm 8.3 in – 8.9 in	24 cm – 25.5 cm 9.5 in – 10.0 in	27 cm – 28.5 cm 10.6 in – 11.2 in	30 cm – 31.5 cm 11.8 in – 12.4 in

Strap On Sizes

Dimension	XXXS	XXS	XS	S	M	L	XL	1X	2X	3X
size	23 – 24	25 – 26	27 – 29	30 – 32	33 – 35	36 – 38	39 – 41	42 – 45	46 – 49	52 – 55
Waist (Inches/cm)	–	29.2 cm 11.5 in	31.8 cm 12.5 in	33 cm 13 in	35.6 cm 14 in	38.1 cm 15 in	40.6 cm 16 in	41.9 cm 16.5 in	44.5 cm 17.5 in	47 cm 18.5 in
Flap (inches/cm)	–	21.6 cm 8.5 in	22.9 cm 9.0 in	24.1 cm 9.5 in	25.4 cm 10.0 in	25.4 cm 10.0 in	26.7 cm 10.5 in	27.9 cm 11.0 in	28.2 cm 11.5 in	30.5 cm 12.0 in

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Frequently Asked Questions

What’s the most popular dildo size?

The most popular dildo size is the 12.7 cm (5.08 inches) dildo girth circumference. The popularity of this size is due to ease of penetration. Wider girth circumference is associated with difficult penetration and sometimes causes pain. The 12.7 cm ((5.08 inches) dildo has larger sizes than the average size penis girth, which is between 11.5cm to 12.3cm.

The length of the dildo ranges between 16.6 cm (6.5 inches) to 19.1 cm (7.5 inches), an insertable length. The size is also longer than an average penis length of 13.1 cm (5.16 inches) and a penis head (1. Generally, the average dildo is 21% longer than the average human penis.

What’s the biggest dildo?

Generally, the majority of dildos that are considered big have insertable lengths of 10” – 14.5” and a 6.75” – 7” girth circumference. The 12-inch dildo (strapless dildo) is also very common for the big size. There are several world-record-breaking giant dildos that are several feet long and wide.

However, they are only used for exhibitions. There are also inflatable dildos that could increase to any desirable size. Check the plus sizes dildo charts above for details of big dildos.

What’s the widest dildo size?

6-inch to 8-inch girth circumference. There are dildo dimensions that are quite larger than this size, however, they are rarely used. Some of the largest girth sizes range into 10 inches girth circumference.

The size may cause discomfort and pain. Generally, most women prefer dildo sizing that would provide pleasure rather than stress. Therefore, you’ll get the average large width as that common type of dildo width.

Also, the width may vary from one dildo type to another. The curved dildo often has a different girth size from the straight dildo. It is said that there are dildos that are as large as soda cans, which are several times bigger than the average penis size. Check the size charts above for further details.

What’s the average size of the dildo?

The average dildo size is in the range of 6 inches to 7 inches, which is slightly bigger than the average penis. However, more experienced women use bigger sizes. The inches in girth width are in the size ranges of 5.0 inches and 7 inches. The upper size girth size is common in curved dildos. they are often larger dildos than the regular ones.

More realistic dildos come in 6 inches or 7 inches sizes. double dildos, on the other hand, often have longer lengths, up to 16 inches or more. There is no perfect dildo size or ideal size, you keep trying until you find the range of dildo sizes that work best for you.

What are the different types of dildos?

Dildos come in various shapes, sizes, designs, textures and types. The common ones include the double-ended dildo, textured dildo, squirting dildo, vibrating dildo, anal dildo, lifelike dildo, standard dildo, curved tip dildo, and fantasy dildo.

Each type is made of unique materials. You’ll find dildos made of silicone dildo, rubber, plastic, metal, and break-resistant glass or other softer material. The material a dildo is made of contributes to the pleasure derived from using it. Some materials absorb body heat which makes them more realistic and delivers more pleasure than others.

Also, the size and texture of dildos vary. Textured and realistic dildos may offer more pleasure than metal designs. Also, vibrating dildos may offer better stimulation than regular dildos. Generally, the fun derived from the use of a dildo depends on the type of dildo one uses.

What’s the smallest dildo size?

The standard sizes of small dildos range from 3 inches to 4 inches in girth circumference and 3.5 inches – 5 inches in insertable length. These sizes may vary for other body types, but for petite women, these sizes are the common ones.

Quite often, the size may vary with the design of the dildo. There are dildo designs that require slightly larger girth but shorter insertable lengths, while others may require longer lengths than average penis girth sizes.

However, given the depth of petite women’s vaginas, designers believe it’s best to use the most common sizes. Most anal and beginner’s dildos often fall in the petite range. Check the petite dildo size chart for more details.

Conclusion

Besides the fun derived from the use of a dildo, it is also a way to explore and see how to get the most out of your sex experience. There are hundreds of varieties of dildos to pick from and each dildo holds a unique experience.

However, all sizes and features may not work well for you. You may need to try different ones before you find what works for you. Check the size charts to see the popular types and sizes. If you have a question, leave it in the comment below. Also, share the article.

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